One of the men in my life has doxxed himself by using Facebook messenger. I sent him a new years eve message on WhatsApp and he sent me a reply on FB Messenger.    I just noticed the FB reply last night, and now I know his real name, where he works, his regiment in the Army, and the name of the band he plays bass for .  

He is quite a nice man, but  I do get pissed off when I find they have been lying to me. 

Makes me feel pretty worthless.